Girl Born without a Face

Posted on December 14, 2004 10:05 PM by Joel Comm

This has got to be one of the most heart-breaking stories I have heard in a long, long time. It is one that actually had me weeping after seeing the video. It's a story of God's grace and of gratefulness for how good the majority of us have it in this life.

Jeannie Blaylock of First Coast News in Florida reported this story of a baby girl born without a face.

Here are some excerpts from the story...

When most parents have a baby, they spend months dreaming about what their bundle of joy will look like. Will she look like mom? Will he have dad's eyes? But for one local Navy family, the birth of their daughter didn't give them the answers to those questions. Their daughter was born without a face.

Little Juliana is missing 30 - 40 percent of the bones in her face.

"She has no upper jaw, no cheek bones, no eye sockets, and she's missing the corner of her ear," explains Tom.

Her birth defect is called Treacher Collins Syndrome. Doctors say it's the worst case they've ever seen.

Juliana has to eat through her stomach, and she has a trach to breathe. Already, less than two years into her life, she's had 14 surgeries. Doctors say she could need at least 30 more.

"God never gives you more than you can handle. I figure she has a lot to show everyone... to show the world," says Tom.

Click here to see the video news story

The end of the article tells how you can get involved if you want to help the Wetmores. It's a sad story, but it is also a testimony to how God can carry anyone through anything. Kudos to Tom and Tammy for giving Juliana the chance to live, and for loving her in spite of the incredible difficulties.

See Also

Two Free Reports - May 18, 2007
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515 Comments For This Post

  1. katie Says:

    Are you insane? Assuming God even existed, how could he be anything else than a ----- for allowing such a mutant to be born in the first place? The parents should be examined for psychological problems for perpetuating the misery of this poor child. One word: euthanasia.

    P.S. God isn't real.

  2. Joel Says:

    Katie,

    I'm sorry you have so much bitterness and hate in your heart that you can't see the truth. I pray that whatever caused you to be so miserable and hatefull will eventually lead you to God. He is real and He loves you, in spite of your nastiness!

    Joel

  3. sss Says:

    I agree with Katie. This child has no future and her mother's pregnancy should have been terminated.

  4. it doesn't matter Says:

    If these posts were meant as a joke, then you need to re-examine their sense of humor. If not, then you need to re-examine much more than that. Whether or not you believe in God, everyone has something to offer the world (heard of Hellen Keller). Tom and Tammy are doing it py providing love and raising their daughters, Juliana and her sister will change the world in some way in the future, far be it from us to judge. I just hope that this family has the strength to get through such hate and ignorance that people like you show them.

  5. Seth Says:

    SSS, Katie,

    I guess all I can say is that Juliana is not your child, so don't let her struggle bother you.

    And, Katie, I thank the one GOD that she was not so unfortunate to be your daughter, as you are unfit to be a mother. Spitting your venom at a young child who simply wants to live -- and at her two loving parents for being just that -- shows the snake that you are.

  6. Jude Says:

    Joel & Seth.

    To bring a child into this planet with this disability is like bringing someone into hell.

    Humans are endeavouring to become God via technology. If there was some way to heal this young girl fine. But is does not yet exist. The amount of pain she will go through is worse than death.

    Yes, I am judging.

    The litmus test is this. Would anyone willfully bring in a child to this planet with this horrendous problem?

    No.

    I rest my case.

  7. Honey Bee Says:

    How dare you ignorant hate mongers add hurt to an already painful situation! Human beings never cease to amaze at there treacherousness! Just when you think people couldn't get more vile, you read something like this! Katie, Jude and SSS(appropriatly fitting name)should euthenize themselves to make this world a more fit place to live in. If you haven't heard, human beings, especially children and even your pathetic selves all deserve dignity. Stop living in the dark ages-- we need to start living the in the truth. Peace.

  8. MarcoPolo Says:

    For those of you that believe the kid should be put out of it's misery, do you have a line that has to be crossed before you wouldn't do that?

    For example, if the kid is born with no arms, is that 'mutant' enough to put out of it's misery? What about no legs? No eyes? Hemophilia? Muscular Dystrophy? You've established that Treacher Collins Syndrome qualifies, but where do you draw the line?

    Is it simply based on whether the parents want to deal with the mutant? If the parent decides that their child should be killed because it was born with only 2 fingers on each hand, is that OK with you?

    I have a feeling you're just being trolls and trying to encite a big argument. Nobody can be that retarded on accident.

  9. bailey Says:

    How empty and shallow are the lives of the people who turn away from this model definition of what family and love is all about. Obviously, those negative, self absorbed people are empty shells and not capable of any compassion, giving, or self worth. How sad
    their lives must be. Those are the poeple I fear for they cause the most damage of all!

  10. Erik Diamond Says:

    Joh 9:1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.
    Joh 9:2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?
    Joh 9:3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.

    God created human beings the way He wanted them to be so that His works will be manifest among us. Many people who became blind, deaf (by the way, I am deaf), ones with no legs, arms, even people jointed by heads or backs at birth. We see people taking this as excuse to hate God or deny that God existed. No matter how painful or sad it might be, God has a reason for it so that his work can be manfiest through them. Some of them will help others, their parents (like the Wetmores) who also showering with God's love, even if we don't really understand why God allowed those things.

    Hang in there Wetmores, I really admired your courage and love for your daughter. I plead with every parents in the world to hug their children, healthy or not, to let them know that they are loved. Don't doubt with God, and He WILL make everything right if you have faith in Jesus Christ, wehther it will happen during your lifetime or in afterlife.

    Peace,
    Erik Diamond

  11. Jude Says:

    For you holier than thou humans, who regal in suffering, why don't you then choose to have children like Juliana?

    Because you know it is wrong for people to choose pain.

    You are the ones who are evil, for you are the ones putting suffering on the innocent.

    You are the ones who should be ashamed of yourselves.

    You are the ones living out the dark ages.

    You are the ones who should be euthanized for choosing another to suffer.

    You are so blind to make that child suffer.

    I pity you Honey Bee, Marco Polo & Bailey. You choose suffering over quality.

    If anyone knew one month into the pregnancy that their child would be born with this condition and did not abort, is a more heinous crime that death.

    It is a rape on a persons destiny.

    It is wrong. Humans are now God. We can destroy the planet and manipulate genes.

    If there was such a way through gene therapy to repair her, then I am all for it.

    If her parents want her to live, that is their choice. But I would never hoist this suffering on anyone. If I knew that she would be like this one month into the pregnancy, I would tell my wife to abort.

    Why let someone suffer needlessly?
    If parents choose to create life, they can choose not to bring in life. The state nor religion does not control who can have children.

    Anyone who allows such suffering is the devils pawn and is insane.

  12. MarcoPolo Says:

    Way to avoid the issue Jude.

    Where do you draw the line? Who's going to determine the suffering threshold to warrant being euthanized?

    You? The parents? Some third party?

    Heck, some people will claim it will ruin their lives if their kid is born colorblind. Is that a good enough reason for you?

  13. Bob Douglas Says:

    Jude et al are moral and ethical nightmares. Their case is as shallow as a wading pool. It is out of this mentality that Nazi Germany was born.

  14. Missy Says:

    Some of these comments are quite honestly the most ignorant, and down right horrendous things I have ever heard in my life. I can't believe that there are actually people who have it in them to say such terrible things. This family DID NOT KNOW that she had the defect when the mother was pregnant. THEREFORE, terminating the pregnancy was not even an option. This child was put on this earth for a reason, and her parents are doing the BEST they can to improve and maintain her quality of life. I am disgusted by how absolutely stupid you people are.

  15. Robert Says:

    WOW! You know, I usually have quite long comments , but at this I am at a loss for words. The apparantly ignorant and ungrateful comments of a couple of people seem to have incited a riot. Let me just say that I am agnostic and also in some cases support abortion and euthanasia, but the comments about this girl being a "mutant" are downright hateful. I have worked with many mentally retarded persons in my life and do believe that there are many things that people with great disabilities have to offer the world. The parents of this girl made the right choice if they are willing to fight and find every way possible to let her lead a relatively normal life. I may support some cases of abortion, but those ar cases where there is NO chance that a child will be LOVED. This girl's parents obviously LOVE her more than life itself, and I applaud them for their dedication. As for God's grace in the situation, that is a matter of personal belief. I myself would rather applaud the great effort of HUMAN love that is shown by this family. For once, I think Joel and I are very much on the same page against these other compassionless fools posting here.

  16. Diane Says:

    I can't believe the horrible things that I'm reading.To even think of killing this innocent child,just because she has a disability,is absolutely absurd.God gave this child to these wonderful parents for a reason.God said he would not give us more trials than we can handle. Through God's grace,these parents can be a great example to those that have a shallow mind in this matter.God does not make mistakes,he knows what is truly special with Juliana.So don't question God and his ability. To those that think otherwise, may God have mercy upon your souls!!!!!

  17. Joel Says:

    Touche Robert... I'm sure we agree about more than we disagree about. Merry Christmas :-)

  18. Michael Weber Says:

    In this age of instant gratification and quick fixes we have lost faith. Faith is believing without seeing and hoping in a Power greater than ourselves. Hope means trust-trust that there is a reason for everything. Nothing happens by chance. I look at this family with great joy, because they have much love to give and they know it will not be easy. Could there have been anything more unfair than Jesus Christ dying on the cross? But there was a reason and so we trust in God that we are all in His care and He knows what He's doing. For those who want to discuss this intelligently, great, but for those who just want to throw out words and call people names, well...that's not very mature is it? So come on, have a mature conversation about this. Peace and love to all, Michael Weber

  19. Nathan Evans Says:

    I was touched by this inspiring story. Were I in a similar situation, I would beg God to give me the strength of the Wetmore's to love my child as they do theirs. Shame on those who say otherwise.

  20. Gretta Says:

    I applaud these parents for their unconditional love of this child. God does not make mistakes; in his eyes this child is perfectly normal and has a purpose to fulfill on this earth. My prayers and well wishes go out to this family, as they indeed have a lot of rough roads to cross. May God Bless You!

  21. billy Says:

    I hate all of you sons of bitches you are all a bunch of fuc*ing retards why don't you learn how to fuc*ing spell and type before you comment on something that isn't even any of your god damn business. Oh, and also LEARN TO SPEAK FUC*ING ENGLISH IF YOUR'E GOING TO POST ON AN ENGLISH FORUM DUMBASS!!! Ah yes, and another thing-THERE-IS-NO-GOD.
    I hope you all die painful slow deaths and rot in your own living rooms because nobody really gives a sh*t enough about you to clean up your fuc*ing rotting corpse. Fuc* you all.

  22. nisaea Says:

    I am a 22 year-old french student and I do not believe in god, so perhaps I have little chance to be listened by some of you, but anyway I want to let my opinion in this page I found by accident as I was searching for more information about this incredible story.

    As I was reading all your posts I was stuck by the radical nature of most of them (I won't take billy in account because I did not really understant the point).

    First, I have to say I really admire the wisdom of the parents in the relation they have with their daughter. They did not choose their daugnter's appearance, nor they knew it before she was born, and nevertheless they did not reject her, they decided, as she existes and they cannot deny it, to give her the chance not to suffer even more than she already probably will. It is very courageous.

    Now, let's talk about Juliana herself. I am very shocked py people calling her a "mutant" because in a way we all are mutants. As the ADN is very fragile, we all have inherited some mutations occured in the two of our parents' cells from which we were born. Juliana just inherited the wrong one…

    But she exists, she breathes, thinks, she is a human being, and has been since her birth and even a while before according to the standards of the abortion limitations. Can we say wether we have the right to "terminate" her or we need to let her grow and let her the chance to choose herself what she wants to do of her life? Yes I think we can.

    But for doing so, we have not to lose memory.Bob Douglas is right. We have to remember what happened in the nazi Germany. Terminate Juliana? How? Creating a dictature which would have the right to take away a child from their parents, against their will, in order to kill him because he doesn't fit the standards of the ideal human being? This has a name: Eugenism. And this should make you remind what really happened in the nazi Germany, if only you once really knew it.

    That is not what you meant? ok, but, once again, where do you draw the line? This is playing with fire and taking the risk of losing control. This would be the gratest mistake of the mankind in centuries.

    We are the only animal species on earth which has nearly suppressed the natural selection, and the need to deal with defects our science makes viable is the counterpart. The only thing to do now is to take on the results of our imperfect perfection.

    Yes I'm done :) thanks to the people who read me!

  23. Sorewa Says:

    I am currently 23 weeks pregnant. At 20 weeks the doctors found an abnormality in my baby. It was the heart. The doctor was concerned that he may have downs syndrome and asked if I would terminate. I was undecided because that would be a choice both me and my husband need to make.
    After speaking with my husband, we decided to get an amnio done. the results came back normal. We have an echo done and they found that the baby has the worse case of congenital heart disease known. The pulmonary views are not developed and there is a hole in the lower chambers of the heart. We decided before we got the results of the amnio to continue with the pregnancy because I mostly believe that everyone deserves the chance to live. I would not be able to live with myself if I took that chance away from an unborn child who could not make that decision. Both my hsuband and I agreed that if surgery could not make our son better we would stop treatment and let him have his peace.
    Though not the same as Juliana, I believe that had the parents known of the condition, they still would have continued on with the pregnancy. Only for the fact that not only do they love their little girl, but they most likely feel that she deserves the chance for life.
    I am not going to scold anyone who has their opinions only because it is that. An opinion. But when you are faced with a situation similar, your thought process may change. Mine did. I was worried that my kid would be born retarded because of my diabetes and all the insulin I have been put on and not having my sugars controlled in the first 10 weeks of pregnancy. I thought to myself I would abort if the child was retarded or had some disability. But after learning that he may actually have had Downs Syndrome, and the chance to abort came about, before the results came in, I decided I would not and could not do it.
    And Jude, It is your wife's body that will have to endure the termination. if she does not feel the same way as you do, would you be willing to loose her? My husband said that he does not want to be cruel to our child if he has DS and to terminate. the day I told I could not do it cause it seemed more cruel to take away his chance for living a Normal or close to normal life, he thought, and consented to my wishes. I could have lost him (and he is my world) but I was willing to take that chance cause I love my child regardless. I really hope that when you and your spouse have the endevour such a travesty that you will be strong enough to understand what she chooses if she chose to keep the child.

  24. Rick Says:

    Some people here are so ugly and need to grow up. There are more important things happening. Chances are that most people here posting are not deformed or aren't unfortunate as the girl this thread is about.
    On another note, I'm a member of a car forum that has been following this girls situation closely. Go to http://www.newtiburon.com/forums/showthread.php?t=28060 and we are collecting donations until the end of Jan to help this child out. This isn't a con, our site has over 5000 members. Our drive has stalled around 700+ dollars. Anyhelp will be appreciated!!!!

  25. Morgan Says:

    i found some of the comments on this page completly discusting.....u say this inocent child should be killed because of her disabilty and u have so much hatered 4 her....but ur makeing life worse for her.....i can imagen what kind of people some of you are....you r the kind of people who would make nasty coments about this child as you walk past her in the street. I aplaud her brave parents and wish them all the luck in the world and i have the up most respect for them and want to wish them all my love....i would love to meet this brave little girl....she is not a mutant.....she is a beautiful little girl.

    and to all those who made arrogant and nasty comments....u call urself people....u want ur legs slapping and u need help....

    u need 2 think to urselfs if she was your child....would you not love her fo being her? would you not love her for being strong? would you not love her at all?

    she is the richest little girl on this earth because she has all the love and support she needs. those of you who have the horrible comments to say about her just keep it to yourself....lets not highlight her faults lets highlight her brillience, her integrity, and her courage. lets celebrate her life not put a downer on it....

    love and peace to u jullianna....may you have a long and happy life.....prove all these low lifes wrong.....

    thinking of you always and forever

    Morgan x x (age 15)

  26. Mariann Says:

    Today is the first time I've heard about this story and this condition. I am rarely moved to the point of tears, but this little girl got me. Her parents are brave, loving people and I hope that I will always be the same to my healthy son.

  27. Jackie Says:

    I just think that no matter how much love is given to the faceless girl, her life is just so different. Think about how people will look and think about hern no matter how much people say that 'the only important thing is what you think'. But how many of us can free ourself for that? And think about that poor girl, she was just a curel joke by god...

  28. Charlene Says:

    I am a friend of the Wetmore family and believe me she is not a mutant and she will lokk pretty normal by the time she is 8. There is no cure because it is just a thing that happens not a diesease. She is not suffering at all and is extremely strong. For all of you poor people who have no concept of love for children, I hope that someday you understand the beauty of pure love for a part of you. I hope that you have children who are not afflicted by any problems because they sure wouldn't deserve a parent like you.

  29. Jeff Says:

    I cant imagine the parents situation. However, I believe the points made by those saying that if this condition is not going to get better, its going to be a long life of suffering. Dont bring your god (whichever it may be) into a situation like this. This should be thought of in logical terms, not theories without proof.

  30. Cynthia Says:

    Charlene is living in a fantasy world. The child will look "pretty normal" by the time she is eight?! She's "not suffering at all?"! The child will NEVER look normal. She has severe medical problems, so she is indeed suffering. I would bet anything that Charlene is a die-hard Christian. I knew a lot of them in college; young people gooned out on religion. They would flit around campus saying to anyone "Jesus loves you" and had a rosy, beatific view of the world. Everything was "God loves you, Jesus loves you, the world is wonderful because God made it, everything is wonderful, everything is going to work out because God in his infinite wisdom takes care of everything, God loves you, Jesus loves you"...GIMME A FREAKING BREAK. I am uncomfortably reminded of these people after reading several of the comments here about how little Juliana will be fine, she had love and support, God loves her, yadda, yadda, yadda. Face reality, people. The child is in for a lifetime of misery. MISERY! I'm not in favor of her being euthanized. But I will say that it would have been more merciful if she had died at birth.

  31. Cathe Says:

    I am pregnant, due in April and obsessed with having a baby with "problems" even though the doctor says everything is fine. I have one perfectly healthy child and I know I am very blessed.

    Seeing this story and reading all these comments - nice and nasty - I feel much better. I know I am the kind of parent who is strong enough to care for a child with "disabilities" and I commend the parents of this little child - people who see beauty and love where others see ugliness and misery.

    There will always be people who don't understand, but the important thing is life is about living and the journey of experience -- not some BS about the American definition of "quality of life" ... the fact is that we all suffer in some form or fashion and life can be full of love or full of misery - regardless of disabilities. No one can live this little girl's life or the lives of those who love her ... they can only experience the joy or misery of being themselves. We are all here to experience happiness and sorrow -- and no life was designed for perfection. The people who believe that this little girl's life is not worth living should reflect on their own life and make sure that their life has enough "worth" ...

    Now, I hope my child is ok in there, and that everything turns out just fine - but if not, I love this child and believe I have the strength to help him or her complete the journey of life he/she came her to experience. I just cannot help myself, I value life and nothing will change that.

  32. Jim Says:

    iv read all these posts, a bot have a good point, one asks how can you make a child go through such a hell when it is so young, and the other says that nothing is deformed enough to die. well i say, who cares? i mean really, i would understand if this child some how effects you, but chances are she dosent. this child will never know the diffrence of being normal and abnormal becuse she was born this way. its like feeling bad for a guy who got his cake taken away even though hes never tried it befor. she wont know the diffrence. besides be glad you dont have to go through what her parents are goin through.and on a finall note about how she will never ammount to anything, were all here to push a little button. like space monkeys. she could be the girl that sneezed and blew the spek of dirt that flew into the eye of the diver that made him crashed into the man that was the father of the next hitler. who knows?ah forget it, im never commin back to this site. im out

  33. jim again Says:

    one more thing, leave peopels religions out, its not about that, your guys are just lookin for low blows trying to discredit the people who said somthing you didnt like. and btw im hindu so im left out of all the anti-christian-ism im feelin on this bored, once again. later

  34. Axel's Alberto Says:

    Well...gee...there were allot of positive/negative feelings and comments here. Heres what I have to say:

    First of all, for all you "jesus loves you" christians. That really doesn't matter here.

    Second of all...all the athiests who don't believe in god, the statment of whether or not a god exists has nothing to do with this situation.

    What matters is that Julliana was born in a world where she can be accepted for who she is. Granted that life is full of ups and downs, highs and lows, and assholes and angels, and it's possible that school may be hard for her later in life...but she has a chance. She has that fighting chance to turn her situation into somthing amazing. What that is, we don't know. But how can we if we don't give her a chance? How do you think braile was created? or Sign language? The fact is that she's here now, in our world. It's up to us to make the world a better and more comfortable place for people like her. I was always taught to accept people for all that they are and all that they aren't. Everyone has allot to give. I feel pitty not for Julliana and her situation, but for the people who can't see past their own bias. I wish her and her family all the best, and I hope that everyone else can rise above their own boundries.

  35. Jake Huether Says:

    This is so tragic, that people would actually think that killing is a solution to dificulty. I pray that you have a change of heart before your time here on Earth comes to an end. You have no mercy on others, and yet expect that when you are in pain or discomfort all should have mercy on you.

    You think that she will go through hell here on earth. But just think, her hell is what, 80, 90 years max. But the hell that exists for those who whould snuff out innocent life is eternal. ETERNAL.

    Juliana is a beautiful girl, who teaches us through the artistic hand of God how lucky we are. She doesn't need our pitty. God's showing us that we should pitty ourselves. “Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for me; weep for yourselves and for your children." Lk 23,28. We have a lot that we can lose! But Juliana can only gain! Any inch of progress must be such joy for her! We would take for granted the things that she enjoys. She will have to deal with some peoples hate, which is hard. But worse is to be the hateful one who has to deal with her love.

  36. Mary Jo Says:

    I just wanted to say that I live very close to this child and saw her just last week. She is as happy and alive as any 2 year old. From behind you would never know there was a thing wrong with her. I am thankful that she was born in this time as there is so many more things that can be done for her now than, say, even 20 years ago. I know. I myself was born with a facial disfigurement and went through a lot of operations in the late 70's through the 80's. And a lot of what was done to me was experimental and is probably some of the things that will be used on this child.

    The family didnt know what was wrong before she was born. It was thought she might have a cleft palate. But for those of you who havent actually seen her in person, she is a very beautiful child and looks a lot better in person than she does on tv. She has already been though about 14 operations I think and still have about 30-40 more. I can assure you of this, those of you who think she is a mutant and shouldnt have the right to live, she already has more stength and beauty, and life and humanity than you all ever will.

    This child is lucky right now. She doesnt know she is different. She is learning to sign so she can communicate. She and her 4 year old sister sign to each other all the time. But I hope to God that He never allows losers like you to come into her life or affect her in anyway.

    There is a special place in hell for you all. What goes around, comes around. You will all get yours.

  37. erin Says:

    I have two words for the folks arguing: GODWIN'S LAW. If you don't know what that is, google it.

    Now. Religion aside, consider the possibility of a higher purpose for this child being born like this. Perhaps it is to teach us that it matters not what our face looks like, but what our hearts are like. You can be as beautiful as Catherine Zeta-Jones but still be a terrible person with a mean heart. The people who have TCS, like this child, are some of the sweetest people and some of the best examples of how loving and kind we should be to our fellow men. It's too damn bad we don't all have the privelege of being able to love and forgive as well as the "mutants" and "handicaps" of this world.

  38. Gale Says:

    After I post this comment, I will take a moment and pray for people like Jude, Billy, Katie, Cynthia and SSS. God is real Jesus does love you. One day you will be held accountable for your hateful ways when you stand before God. The good news is that you will be exonorated for your wickedness if and only if you accept Christ as your Savior.

    Juliana's parents are brave, wonderful people. They didn't bring Juliana into this world, God did. They gave their little girl a chance at life and God will bless them for it. Aborting a child because it has a birth defect is deplorable. Where do you draw the line? I hope you people realize the evil of your ways before it is too late. Otherwise, you will find yourselves cast into the lake of fire.

    God Bless,

    Gale

  39. Emma Says:

    All I can say is that she is a beautiful young girl, and i hope she can have surgury to make her look and feel better. There are too many shallow people in this world that will judge her as soon as they see her, i admit if i saw this little girl i would have to look twice at her, but i do admit she is beautiful and full of life :D!

  40. Tina Says:

    WOW. . .I am researching TCS (what Juliana was born with) for a presentation at school. I know Tammy from school (high school and middle school), and she is friends with my sister (Juliana's mom). From my understanding, that she is healthy other than missing facial bones, that are being reconstructed. So, in retrospect, the problem lies more in people that are not accepting of others, due to appearance. Yes. . she has some huge issues in front of her. But this little girl is amazing!

  41. Annon Says:

    The only way that juliana & others with special needs will end up leading a normal life without being ridiculed, is if all you negative imature people decide to change your ATTITUDE toward people with special needs.
    Society disables people with disabilities!! and until we realise this, negative attitudes will not change!!
    Best of luck to Juliana and her family!

  42. Annon Says:

    Am i? Why?!?

  43. tilly Says:

    After watching a program about Juliana and her parents, all i have is admiration for them all in what are dificult times.

    I hope all future operations go well and wish you all well in the future.

    Tilly

  44. becky Says:

    IM NOT RELIGOUS!
    BUT I HAVE A HEART AND I AM SHOCKED BY THE COMMENTS ON THIS SITE. THIS LITTLE GIRL WAS PUT ON THIS PLANET FOR A REASON!!!! MABYE TO TEACH SMALL MINDED INBREDS SUCH AS KATE, SSS, AND JUDE,WHAT CHARECTER IS, AND THIS LITTLE CHILD HAS MORE CHARACTER IN HER THUMB THAN ALL OF YOU PUT TOGETHER!! I WAS ONLY WATCHING THE PROGRAM FOR 10 MINS AND I WAS CRYING , THIS LITTLE GIRLS SPIRIT AND STRENGTH SHONE OUT, I HOPE WHEN SHE IS OLDER AND HAS A HAPPY (AND SHE WILL) LIFE, THAT YOU SMALL MINDED, STUPID, SICK INDIVIDUALS WILL HAVE GROWN SOME INTELIGENCE AND TREAT PEOPLE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!

  45. BECKY Says:

    on a gentler note.... to the bravest parents i have ever seen, if the world was filled up with people like you it truly would be heaven on earth! thank you for entering my life and give little J a BIG hug from me!

  46. gazza Says:

    i have jus watched this story on tv in england, i would not wish have my love for my child tested and and proud of this family for their efforts and love of thier girl.
    and to the morons who post stupid heartless comments,.. ur brains are not well enough developed so why were u not terminated?

    good luck

  47. Cal Says:

    As a medical student I ahve alot of respect for what the doctors (surgeons mainly) have been able to do for this young girl. I also have the utmost respect for the parents and their strive for a fairer world, and recognition, rather than persecution of their childs' condition.

    It is difficult to decide whether a baby child should live or not (who should make this choice??) but in this instance I feel the parents and medical professionals have been unethical in their decision.

    This child needed extensive emergency surgery to even survive minutes after birth. She needed emergency tracheostomy to be able to breath, and numerous other procedures ongoing etc. She will perhaps never know what food tastes like, will never breathe normally, never hear normally, never see normally. What quality of life is this child going to have? Yes "normal" is a bit of a grey area, but this child definitely isnt, in the purest sense.

    On top of this, it is important to regard American medical practitioners possible bias towards financial gain (fame or otherwise) for carrying out so many "amazing" and "wonderful" new techniques. Some medical professionals would have deemed the birth and subsequent treatment(s) as unfair and barbaric on such a small individual.

    In this case there seems to be a total disregard for any dignity that this child may have had in death, she has been denied that with the glory of life and its glories, but will most likely lead a very tormented and unhappy life.
    Life is unfair, people are unfair, people are judgemental, people want to make money, this child could have done without all of that...

  48. cal Says:

    And why do any negative comments get completely slated, people can think and say what they want on here... freedom of speech and all that?! They have little or no relevance to Hitler and the Nazis, you people who shun other peoples opinions and say that god's way is the only way are just as bad, Look in the mirror.

  49. Mike Says:

    Maybe the critics of this brave family have expressed their opinions in a crass manner.
    It doesnt diminish the point.
    Abortion is the kinder option in such a case. Sometimes denying someone the "right to live" is the more compassionate option.
    It alll depends on progress made in surgical technology over the next two decades.
    If by twenty this girl has a workable face then her parents attitudes might well be vindicated.

  50. brian Says:

    i watched the program about juliana and it reduced me to tears it put my own life into perpective you people who called this child a mutant are sick at least she has a brain something you people are lacking

  51. charlie Says:

    i have just found this website and i have been disgusted by how people can say such things about such a beautiful little girl. i myself am only 15years old but i have realised that it is not how you look that is important but it is how you are with other people and your heart whch is important. yes she may have a disability but she is still full of life and why take that away from her and her family who obviously love her dearly just because some weird people think its makes a difference to how you should treat people. i wish her and her family every success for the future and i wish that i lived near to them so i could meet the wonderful girl in person. unfortunately i live in england. i also hope that someday people will actually grow up and think maturely about issues which affect people every day.
    charlie xXx

  52. cal Says:

    I wasnt saying that the negative views ie pro abortion were wrong, I was just saying how silly it was that people attacked them so much. The child is a mutant in the dictionary sense of the word, and the medical sense (her condition is a genetic disorder, ie mutation from the normal). Plus people can think. If you can construct a balanced argument, rather than angry statements then you do have a brain, even if you do think this child is a mutant, which she is.

  53. John Says:

    I've just seen the documentary on BBC TV about Juliana and her family and was deeply moved by it. The unconditional love of the family is to be applauded indeed envied by most of us, I agree that Juliana will probably never look "normal" but what the hell what's normal? I have a daughter with Downs Syndrome who may actually fall into the "not normal" catagory (according to some bitter people "contributing to this forum")and chances are that Juliana will have a higher IQ than my daughter ever will but we love her , she enjoys life and has a good laugh with all around her , what more could you ask for in some one ?
    I'm not at all religious and i too would ask the question if there is a god , why do this to a child and family so i'm not going to bang on about Jesus loving us all etc etc. However those who would kill Juliana off because they have decided that Juliana has nothing to offer the world need to come out of their small minded view of the world. I ask the question again , where do you draw the line ? Professor Stephen Hawkins has had a lot to offer and under their rules would probably have bee trerminated too, how about those with mental "abnormalties" are they to be treated the same way, indeed Bill Gates is reported as being Autistic ... we probably wouldn't able to on this forum without his vision.
    Enough of the ranting. Just watch the film and see the love in Juliana's eyes as she puts her arms around her dad for comfort when she is going in for the operation on her lower jaw , skull and nose tubes. othing more or less than any two year old would do i assure you. Those who cannot or refuse to see that have no empathy for others i say ( maybe thats a mental problem and they should be "terminated too" ?? )
    Pass my best onto Juliana and her family , i applaud you.

  54. Adrien Says:

    This is the worst seen I have ever seen. She reminds me a monster in the game Silent Hill. This child is just AWFUL!!! She is really a monster and aaa also stop saying if a boy has no arms or is hemohpile THIS IS NOTHING COMPARE TO THAT.. The FACE is the mirror of the human, without it its only a monster..

    Anyway stop speaking about God, leave him alone :P

  55. Stacey Says:

    I didnt watch the program last night, although I wanted to. I was looking it up on the internet to see if it was on again at any time when I stumbled across this. It amazes me how some of you can be so damn heartless! As for you that said euthanasia, if that was your child and the scan only showed cleft lip which can be corrected would you euthanise your child?! No I dont think you would. I think your comments are atroscios and that you should maybe go and find a heart! (I'd never wish a thing like this on anyone) But I do hope your child turns out with some sort of deformity and see how you have the heart whether or not to euthanise your own child!

  56. mellissa Says:

    i watched the programme and it was so moving, that i cried! i think she has the best family in the world for being so loving towards her.
    and all this god thing! of course hes real!

  57. melly Says:

    this girl really is amazing and adrien how could you be so nasty,what you said was a nasty thing to say, you are the monster not her. no one is perfect, but what you said was well out of order you heartless person.

  58. gemma Says:

    well i think all you people that are dissing juliana are fools! she is a lovely girl and she's just like everyone else apart from here appearence is different! i think your stupid and pathetic if you judge people by what they look like! know ones perfect and i think people should understand that everyone deserves to live and little juliana has a lovely family that love her with all there hearts and if anything, she is probably more lucky than anyone of us! she might not get the boys but at least she has people around her that will always care for her and be by her side!
    p.s. juliana live life to the max sweetheart!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  59. melly Says:

    i agree with Gemma, not just because shes a mate! but this girl is more lucky than all of us for having a lovely family.

  60. gemma Says:

    i totally agree with melly! adrian that was a real mean thing to say! i bet your not perfect! your probably far from it! and that goes to the rest of you people that dont respect juliana!

  61. Sam and Haf and Raz Says:

    OMG! what do you think you are actually saying? if there wasnt no god then how the hell where you born? do you think that an invisible ghost came and made you down to your last cell? i think the insane one are you and please think about what you are saying! this girl diserves to live! it wasnt her fault she was born like that was it????? how could you be so cruel and cold-hearted!! i hope you read this because no matter what anyone says i will be there for that girl and i know for a fact that ME and my MATES will b supporting Julianna and others like her, with their battle. all i suggest you do now is thank god that he has given you the things you have and me and all my fellow CLASSMATES are disgusted in the way u speak about her. you shall be judged in the life after death. this also goes to every other person who thinks that the birth of Julianna was wrong. u hav been put on this earth to liv, then by depriving the life of this sweet and mostly INNOCENT girl would b the greatest crime of humanity. i suggest you KATIE should take a look at ureself and do the one and only thing but to THANK god for giving you the things that this poor unfortunately cannot have. actually i take my words back. CANNOT? she can! there are many different types of surgeries out these days and i am proud of this girl and her parents for being so strong and fighting for her. she wasnt meant to be like this, but hey thats her destiny not yours, and actually b4 i finish one more thing you said ureself ' julia is not your child, so dont let her struggle bother you' u sed dat ureself, so y r u bein so nasty abt her all of a sudden??? u need to get ure facts right!!!!! and thats all i can say, bcoz i dont know how old u r but me and all of us here are TRULY AND UTMOSTLY D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D AND A-P-P-A-L-L-E-D at the behaivour and attitude of someone that god, how merciful he is, granted you and ure family with the gracefulness and neccesity of life!

    from sam,haf and Raz all the students of P.G.S.2.

    p.s. and by the way WE R MUSLIMS! so ders no need 2 b racist!

  62. Sam and Haf and Raz Says:

    OMG! what do you think you are actually saying? if there wasnt no god then how the hell where you born? do you think that an invisible ghost came and made you down to your last cell? i think the insane one are you and please think about what you are saying! this girl diserves to live! it wasnt her fault she was born like that was it????? how could you be so cruel and cold-hearted!! i hope you read this because no matter what anyone says i will be there for that girl and i know for a fact that ME and my MATES will b supporting Julianna and others like her, with their battle. all i suggest you do now is thank god that he has given you the things you have and me and all my fellow CLASSMATES are disgusted in the way u speak about her. you shall be judged in the life after death. this also goes to every other person who thinks that the birth of Julianna was wrong. u hav been put on this earth to liv, then by depriving the life of this sweet and mostly INNOCENT girl would b the greatest crime of humanity. i suggest you KATIE should take a look at ureself and do the one and only thing but to THANK god for giving you the things that this poor unfortunately cannot have. actually i take my words back. CANNOT? she can! there are many different types of surgeries out these days and i am proud of this girl and her parents for being so strong and fighting for her. she wasnt meant to be like this, but hey thats her destiny not yours, and actually b4 i finish one more thing you said ureself ' julia is not your child, so dont let her struggle bother you' u sed dat ureself, so y r u bein so nasty abt her all of a sudden??? u need to get ure facts right!!!!! and thats all i can say, bcoz i dont know how old u r but me and all of us here are TRULY AND UTMOSTLY D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D AND A-P-P-A-L-L-E-D at the behaivour and attitude of someone that god, how merciful he is, granted you and ure family with the gracefulness and neccesity of life!

    from sam,haf and Raz all the students of P.G.S.2.

    p.s. and by the way WE R MUSLIMS! so ders no need 2 b racist!

  63. Sam and Haf and Raz Says:

    OMG! what do you think you are actually saying? if there wasnt no god then how the hell where you born? do you think that an invisible ghost came and made you down to your last cell? i think the insane one are you and please think about what you are saying! this girl diserves to live! it wasnt her fault she was born like that was it????? how could you be so cruel and cold-hearted!! i hope you read this because no matter what anyone says i will be there for that girl and i know for a fact that ME and my MATES will b supporting Julianna and others like her, with their battle. all i suggest you do now is thank god that he has given you the things you have and me and all my fellow CLASSMATES are disgusted in the way u speak about her. you shall be judged in the life after death. this also goes to every other person who thinks that the birth of Julianna was wrong. u hav been put on this earth to liv, then by depriving the life of this sweet and mostly INNOCENT girl would b the greatest crime of humanity. i suggest you KATIE should take a look at ureself and do the one and only thing but to THANK god for giving you the things that this poor unfortunately cannot have. actually i take my words back. CANNOT? she can! there are many different types of surgeries out these days and i am proud of this girl and her parents for being so strong and fighting for her. she wasnt meant to be like this, but hey thats her destiny not yours, and actually b4 i finish one more thing you said ureself ' julia is not your child, so dont let her struggle bother you' u sed dat ureself, so y r u bein so nasty abt her all of a sudden??? u need to get ure facts right!!!!! and thats all i can say, bcoz i dont know how old u r but me and all of us here are TRULY AND UTMOSTLY D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D AND A-P-P-A-L-L-E-D at the behaivour and attitude of someone that god, how merciful he is, granted you and ure family with the gracefulness and neccesity of life!

    from sam,haf and Raz all the students of P.G.S.2.

    p.s. and by the way WE R MUSLIMS! so ders no need 2 b racist!

  64. REBECCA Says:

    Im very sorry to say this, all you god fans please think about what u are saying! if there wasGOD y would he do that then ........just think before u say! i watched the program last night and i was totally touched im 18 and maybe i will undersatand more when im a mother but i cant understand y! what life has juliana got, she is only 2 and alreeady had 14 operations with many more in her life to go through what normal child should have to suffer like that. i would hate it if i was born like that and my mum and dad kept me.you can tell that she is loved by all in her family and i feel they are trying to do what is best for her, but she is never gonna lead a normal life children r cruel she will be bullied so much never get a job, boyfriend all little things that we take for granted she cant even eat properly! i feel for the family! and u say there is a god think about it she is just 2 years old!

  65. Annmarie Says:

    I have to say that you people who are under the impression that this lovely child is a "Mutant" and a "Monster" should remember that what goes around comes around and something bad really ought to befall you all to punish you for saying such things.

    If this was your child and people were saying such awful things, how would you feel?

    If Juliana's parents are reading this then my message to you is : You are a wonderful family and I truly hope you do not think the English are all so narrow minded and vile. Keep smiling, your daughter is one very brave little girl and I wish you all the best.

  66. Harry Says:

    Those parents are the most selfish people on the earth.

    they subject that poor creature to a living hell for their own selfish moralistic reasons and frankly thats unforgivable.

    she cannot eat, she cannot even breathe without the torturous methods imposed by others equally selfish and insensitive.

    if god exists, and his will is to subject this poor child to this life, then he is evil incarnate.

  67. gemma Says:

    i'm not a god believer! i think that everything happens for a reason! no this girl mite not EVER be able to have a boyfriend, but ATLEAST she has a loving and supportive family around her! harry maybe you have a point, she cant eat, talk etc... but everyone has a chance to live, no matter what they look like! i think that all you people out there that dont appriciate the little girl should think again on what you av sed! she is like everyone of us, but she has a different appearance! people say she's not normal! whats normal???????? no ones normal/perfect! and i think that juliana's family are goin to do whats best for her! and it isn't up to any of you! if that was your child then i'm sure you wudn't get rid of her!
    p.s. good luck to juliana and her family! i wish you all the best xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  68. *+*Pl@yGiRl*+* Says:

    julianna and her family dont listen to all these HORRIBLE people! i think u 2 parents are the best thing thats EVER goin to happen to julianna! she is a lovely child and she mite not look gorgeous to everyone else but she's ur child and i bet she looks STUNNING in ur eyes! i wish you all the best for the future and i hope that in the end she ends up to av a great life! beta than these heartless people that dont believe in her! GOODLUCK JULIANNA U LITTLE STAR xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  69. Daniel Says:

    i do not follow a religion nor do i intend to, and personaly i think anyone who belives in a "God or Gods" is a fool... but i guess we all need something to belive in, just like the parents of this girl... they belive that she has a purpose (what i dont know nor do they know) but for all you people who are showering the parents with hate for letting her live just bare this in mind...... for all the world knows this girl could bring world peace, solve 3rd world starvation, stop global warming, etc etc..... yes she cant breathe, she cant eat, she cant speak..... but doctors are doing there job and helping her have a life.... technology today in medical reserch is outstanding compared to what it was a few years ago..... by the time she is an adult (or late teenage) she might have a face like you or me..... doctors have solved how to grow ears... lips.... nose's... from 1 single cell....... and it works!!! but sooner or later technology will let us "grow" limbs and organs..... but till then this girls will suffer pain and stress but at least she has a family that loves her and excepts her for who she is.

    And one more bone i have to pick with the world is everyone who stops and stares at people like juliana and anyother person for that matter.... i completely crushed my thigh bone in my left leg...... putting me in a wheel chair for 1 year while the tiny fragments of set.... now i can walk but with a nasty limp..... i've been called names such as "hop alone", "penguin man" and many other things, people stare at me but its all because people dont understand why i walk the way i do... since the dawn of time man kind has fear the unknown above anything... and all you people who stare, call names, and insult the people who have the misfortune of a "disadvantage" its only because you lack the brains to understand other peoples diffrences.... people may hate juliana for who she is but i cant hate those people i just pity them for the lack of respect for there fellow man kind.

    you see i'm only 15 and it seems i know a lot for my age but thats because when you have nothing to do but sit for down for 1 year you watch, and just by watching you learn so much...

    i hope that just one day people will stop and watch around them and see the world around them instead of what they want the world to see.

    good luck juliana and to her parents.... you all have my respect.

  70. melly Says:

    why is everyone talking about god!? this girl is not a monster i think it is F****** nasty what people have been saying, its not the way people look that makes them a monster, its the person inside, like all you t**** calling her things... shes a lovely girl so leave her alone.

  71. Gerard Says:

    Pfffff Stop talking about this stupid God! I cannot imagine how people always think it's because of God and blablablaaa I truly think I'm with kids who thinks in stupid candy stories, god doesn't exist u fools, the Humanity created gods so to stop fearing about Death...

    Coming to Juliana or Miss Monster 2005, The parents are selfish and you people are just blinded by Love and whatever.. Juliana shouldn't have been keep to life when her mother had her. The doctors should have stop her, she is gonna suffer during all her life from first her look (Because she is a really a monster a no face human) and then from the other... All the people who won't know her gonna try to kill her thinking she is an invading alien :P

    Anyway I let the "God is merciful and Love is in the air" to destroy my message, hope they have fun :D

    Stupid Sheep :D:D:D:D

  72. Andyj Says:

    Everyone is entitled to their opinion - some believe in GOD (in what ever form takes your fancy) some don't. Personally i don't, but its my choice and lets not get wound up in the god argument any more and who may, or may not, be to blame. I watched the programme and found it to be one of the most moving and upsetting things I've seen, with nothing but total admiration for her parents.

    Does Juliana have an easy life ahead ?... no I think that most people will agree that she has a lot to get through. Will she look "normal" depending on what you class as "normal" anyway - who can say, non of us can see the future so its impossible to say what advances medicine may make or how things will pan out for her in the long run.

    There are many kids born today that need assistance straight after birth in order to survive - this isn't a "euthanasia" issue - simply one of "rights". Juliana has just as much "right" to live as you, me or anyone else. How long she has with us is down to nature and how much her parents and we as a society can aid her development - either through medicine or other means. But lets take this a little further - some of you are arguing / implying that because she needed (and will continue to need) medical assistance that nature is basically trying to say "sorry - times up".

    OK, lets close all the hospitals then and not treat anyone for anything - if you die then obviously nature / god (what floats your boat) is saying....

    On what basis are you deciding that she shouldn't be allowed to live? - the fact that visually she looks different and needs some assistance? - or is it that you simply have a hard time accepting her appearance? Perhaps its your "holy'er than thou" attitude, or your small minded self centred opinions? Perhaps it's a "church" upbringing that convinces you that you are right and everyone is wrong?

    So by your own statements, people born with certain conditions should not be allowed to live?... Would you have the same opinion if a child of yours was born with HIV (passed on through some medical mishap say).. i don't think so. But lets say this did happen and you decided to say no, this is one life thats not meant to be - ask yourself how you would feel if others questioned your decision and how "dare" you make sure a "terrible" decision and terminate another life!

    I suspect the problem is that you either probably don't have kids of your own or have never met any with what we shall call "difficulties". Or that you do have kids but they are by your definition "perfect". I doubt this though as your perception on life changes once you have children. I have kids - I remember someone saying to me that the love you feel for them is "unconditional". I don't agree.

    Its "all consuming" and i know other parents will agree with me that there aren't enough words in any language to describe just how much you love your kids. To see this little person develop and grow right infront of your eyes is "something else", nothing can prepare you for it and it drives you to make the decisions that you do in life concerning your kids.

    Perhaps everyone who takes offence at your comments has the right to have you terminated for having such extreme views that they think aren't "normal".....

    Perhaps its a sad fact of the society that we live in that people like you exist. Of course you are entitled to your opinions and beliefs and i'm not trying to take them away from you. I do think though that you should all be utterly, utterly ashamed of yourselves for venting them in such a public way, with no regard for the feelings of the Wetmore family, and indeed little Juliana who must be going through an ordeal that probably can't be put into words - how do you think she will feel when she reads this? I for one will never forget that footage of her clinging harder and harder to her mother when she was trying to put her down - because it was the only way she could express her fear...

    I just hope that Tom, Tammy and everyone involved will continue to receive the support that they so very deservely receive and help them ignore the sad, pathetic and frankly downright disgusting comments that some have said here.

  73. kelsey hardy Says:

    i hope she gets all the treatmant she needs i was watching the program on telly and shes getting on very well xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  74. sam Says:

    allz im sayin iz hw culd u b so nasty? its lurve alrite. i fink dat diz shud b the lesson 4 all of us, imagine if u wer her! wuld u want 2 b terminated. lifes ful of choices and tammi dcided nt 2 hve a termination nd i thank her 4 dat coz i fink julianna is beautiful. yes i now shes suffering but inshaalaah she will get better. rememba god is merciful and even if u dnt belivge in god im entitled 2 this opinion. i think her parents r awfully strong for going threw wit dis! i mean jus do one fing after reading this imagine if dat was u! afta watchin da programme i srtred 2 cry coz dis gal has a lurvely personality and well 2 me shes beautiful. its nt wats on da inside its wats on da inside. imagine if she was ure daughter? wuld u get her killed!!!!!- c hw harsh dat iz!

  75. Eleonore Says:

    Anyway when little Juliana will see her face in the mirror and consider herself as a humain being she will get afraid and hang herself...

    Or maybe become a Star in Hollywood for all the freaky monster shows!

  76. marie Says:

    hi think tht this story is sad becuase its the 1st story tht is sad and u will fel sorry for her

  77. marie Says:

    hi think tht this story is sad becuase its the 1st story tht is sad and u will fel sorry for her

  78. melly Says:

    ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm it is sad but she is happy, and that is the most important thing.
    xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx

  79. gemolean Says:

    this story is about a little girl withoiut a face, she is not sum kind of "monster" or "alien" she is a human being just like EVERYONE else! so all you mean people should all take a look at wot ur sayin! u lot that are bein mean, i hope you go to hell! GOOD LUCK FOR THE FUTURE!

  80. cynthia Says:

    She is the ugliest I have ever seen...

  81. gemolean Says:

    cynthia stop bein such a heartless b.i.t.c.h! i bet u aint perfect! ur probably worse lookin than julianna! and the same goes to the rest of you lot that dont appriciate the life of the young girl!

  82. mell Says:

    well she is ugly, but who cares! it aint you face so who cares! its the inside that counts, so shes ugly wow! you dont need to tell her, shes a lovely girl.

  83. tom Says:

    hi im tom! hello!

  84. sam Says:

    omg man i dint nw der was so many hertless ppl out der! :'( wt hve we bcum

  85. Crystal Says:

    My heart goes out to this little girl and her family. May God be with you all don't ever give up. This little girl has a purpose in life don't ever doubt that. God bless you.

  86. conrad Says:

    I live in the uk and have just seen the program regarding Juliana on TV I sobbed for days after this and can only praise her parents and wish them love and light . Juliana is an angel sent from God and if people cannot see that its them i feel sorry for!!!

  87. Missy_Blissy Says:

    Reading the nasty comments that have been made about Julianna makes me so sad. Obviously she looks very different to everybody else, but we are living in a society that are obsessed with trying to obtain perfection. From anti wrinkle cream to endless diets. The fact is nobody is perfect. It is very obvious that Julianna has a lot of serious things wrong with her, but if anyone watched the documentary properly you would see that from birth she has already made amazing progress, and that the estimated outcome by the time she is six will not leave her looking much different to a person born with downs syndrome. Mentally there is nothing wrong with juliana, she is a happy loving little girl who in day to day life plays with toys like any other little girl and is very happy. Yes she will have to go through a lot of surgery in her young years but there is no reason that she wont end up living a normal life, apart from the fact that our self absorbed society cant accept anyone who differs from the 'norm...whatever that is. I have a neice who spent the first year of her life in hospital fighting to survive, nearly dying time and time again, nearly loosing limbs due to infecting, suffering from heart failure, lung failure, kidney failure.. and the worst kinds of hell you could imagine...like juliana she had to be fed through a tube,she couldnt be moved from bed and there were people who said they thought she shouldnt live....Today my neice is a normal happy little girl who runs around and plays and laughs and is so beautiful...and the days of her treatment are not over, but there is no doubt that my neice would not have wanted to die, and i believe this is true also for juliana.I suggest that people re-examine their abilities to have stronger faith and not be so shallow as to judge something from a picture without knowing the whole story.I dont think juliana would want to die. she doesnt have a problem with who she is. she is happy and loving, and it even said on the documentary that she reaches out to cuddle everyone she meets. She does not have a problem with how she is, nor does her sister, or the children who know her. It is only empty minded empty hearted shallow minded people like a few of the people on this forum who have the problem.go to http://www2.caringbridge.org/fl/juliana/index.htm to see julianas website or http://www.firstcoastnews.com/video/player320.aspx?aid=34965&bw= to see juliana playing. she is lovely and she will be okay ahe is getting better all the time, it's just the acceptance of people that has to improve with her.

  88. Raz,Haf and Suki Says:

    different people are born differently, some normall and some disabled. Wats ur problemo? just bcuz ur normall doesnt mean ur PERFECT! IF EVERY1 IN DA WORLD WAS DA SAME IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BORING. the excitment is dat every1 is different! GOD CREATED her bcuz 2 test da people of dis world! how can u say(gemma) she woulnt get a boy friend. who cares life isnt all about BOYFRIENDS! wake up! AS MUSLIMS we believe dat every1 must b treated as u would like 2 b treated meaing fairly kindly!Do u believe dis?????

    once a man came 2 da prophet he said how do u no dat dere is a god?
    the prophet said the footprints in da sand proves dat a person has been der, and da creation of eath is a prove dat som1 wid gr8 power did dis whic is god.
    this was good enough 4 da man and it is good enough 4 me.
    think every1 and gain knowledge dats da way 2 success.

    we muslims r tought 2 treat every1 da same.

    P.S same message as b4 WE'RE MUSLIMS SO THERES NO NEED 2 BE RACIST!
    thank u!

  89. Raz Says:

    hey as u no, islam is dat fastest growing religion, u should check dis website out, im not telling u 2 become 1, i'm just saying check it out and see how people from different religions came 21 no da truth.

    http://www.jrai.com/pages/thestories/stories.php

    thank u!

  90. Raz Says:

    hey as u no, islam is dat fastest growing religion, u should check dis website out, im not telling u 2 become 1, i'm just saying check it out and see how people from different religions came 21 no da truth.

    http://www.jrai.com/pages/thestories/stories.php

    thank u!

  91. guess Says:

    i think all dose people r selfish, coldhearted!

    get a life i think dat julianna's parents r strong and i appreciate them and i support them.
    u all look at ur selfs b4 u speak

  92. guess Says:

    thanks 4 da website raz its really intresting can u plz give me more websites 2 look at?

  93. sam Says:

    ok tom! helllllooooo

  94. sam Says:

    ok tom! helllllooooo- dis ain a ch@ website. tink of da poor poor gyal :(

  95. Raz Says:

    hey sam u stop saying "hellllo tom"
    i thought u said it aint a chatting website!

  96. Laura Jane Wilson Says:

    First of all id like to comment that the parents knew nothing of her condition before she was born. The doctors thought at the most she would have a cleft palate. Would you terminate a child with a hare lip or cleft palate? No i didn't think so. Second of all, she is still a little girl who has feelings and loves her mummy and daddy and likes to play,she just doesnt look like the rest of us,she's not a monster. Thirdly her parents saw through all of the problems to realise she would still be loved just as they would love any other child and i thank god that he gave this little girl to them instead of to someone like katie (above). You are obviously too shallow to see past people's problems. I bet ur the type of person to look down at your nose to someone in a wheelchair too. This little girl probably deserves to be on this earth even more than you!

  97. mellll Says:

    bum hole, bum hole!

  98. bum hole Says:

    hello u pieces of s*h*i*t how are ya'll? i think i'm gona (poke) ur (bruise) from the (piercen)

  99. sam Says:

    YEAH, V GET DA MESSAGE AWO :p

  100. mrs selb Says:

    hello people i wud just like to say that i have met that family and they are the lovliest people i have EVER met! and all u people that are saying all this S*H*I*T about juliana r wrong! just get a life and stop buttin other peoples lives!
    UR ALL COWARDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  101. xjesx Says:

    TO KATIE AND SSS
    You people that say she should be uthanised are just arrogant! she is not a dog some people out there dont just go o n looks.
    whos to say that she wont get married to a man that thinks she is gorgeous, get a job and have children!!!!! you are all sad and pathetic! you dont ever deserve the privaledge of having children. any person in there right mind knows that when you have a child you love them no matter what you look like i hope you never burden a child with you as ther parents!!

  102. bummmma Says:

    stop deleting our stuff!
    Bruise poke piercen

  103. aka sex godess. Says:

    heya melly....i feel so sorry for this lil girl......bless her, if i knew her i would want her to me my friend.....xxxx luv amz

  104. Raz Says:

    u no wat? i think dat ever1 should not take her as a monster. bcuz she didn't chose 2 b diabled did she?

    i fink dat dis gal is soo lucky bcuz she's got a caring and kind family!

    by da way, hu eva came 2 dis website 2 ch@ should leave wen dey read dis.

  105. sam Says:

    elllo. raz hwz u man ;) KMFAOAOAOAOAOA

  106. Sarah Says:

    YO, every1 im new and i want 2 get along with every1 so HI!

    MOving on i dont feel sorry 4 da girl, bcuz as rAZ said her family are nice and kind and r caring.

    BUT,
    I DO BELIEVE IN GOD!
    if u have a problem u write 2 me!

  107. B Says:

    yo man, wazzap ppl. y don u leave da poor gyal alone man. she as a family man. jus leave er 2 liv er life man. ppl. its der busines not urz. wer did dis wepage cum 4rm? its sik.

  108. pin Says:

    hey peeps i wud just like to say a big bye to every1 coz i'm movin abroad and i'm gona miss ya'll so take care! (to the every1) o and julianna keep ur head up high swettie dont listen to what other people r sayin! xxxxxxxxxx

  109. becci Says:

    i think that it isnt what you look like on the outside it is the inside that counts! no-one should say anything mean about her! she is a helpless child! all of you should not say anythin mean!

  110. Raz Says:

    U no wat i agree wid becci, but she is not a helpless child.

    Just bcuz she is disapled doesnt mean she is helpless. Becci plz correct urself.
    She didnt choose 2 b disapled, and being disabled isnt vry nice, if u keep talking about da person hu is disabled. And also dose mean people out der, plz look urself in da mirror and realize how lucky u r not 2 b disabled.

    P.S im a muslim. And hope u do realize how lucky u r, cuz i have. :D

  111. Gia Says:

    What a load of children you really are. I have a question for all of you who seem to be hell-bent oon comdemning this child for life. If she was born with a normal face, but then was in some kind of accident which gave her the problems she has now, would you still be sharpening the guilotine? I doubt it.

  112. Ewan Says:

    I just saw a documentary on tv about Juliana last night. It was one of the most moving things I've ever seen. I too have a young daughter and I love her with all my heart and soul. My little girl had a very bad case of infant eczema, a complaint which seems completely trivial in the light of Juliana's misfortunes, and the love a parent experiences for a sick child is so incredibly intense. To witness the true and unconditional love Juliana's parents have for her is truly humbling. They are very strong and wonderful people and I wish the whole family all the best for the future. It's amazing the developments that are being made in modern medecine and Juliana is in a good place where cutting edge treatments can be employed on her behalf. She is still very young and there is much they will be able to do. Once facial functionality is optimized her surgeons can then concentrate on aesthetics. I'm sure Juliana will look unrecognisably better by the time she reaches late childhood. Nevertheless she's already beautiful to her parents and to this, and I'm sure many other, onlookers. Much love to Juliana, her sister and her parents.

  113. Original Says:

    Juliana has a dreadful burden to bear in a world which treats others inhumanely even when they "fit in" with "conventional" standards. As a Black person, I know all about prejudice based on seeing not what a person is on the inside but focussing on what is outside. The most hateful comments here seem to have been posted by pathetic persons who show a total lack of experience, insight and development as people...which is what we all are, no matter how it is we look. Such a class of individuals who obviously think they know everything that there is to know about Life are unfortunately not just confined to the type who project their ignorance via emails...they are seated in positions of power and influence around the world and the rest of humanity suffers from their inability to think and feel. Well, guess what? None of us really knows what life is all about, so when are we going to admit to that and stop judging, sniping and oppressing one another? I think Julianna's parents are commendable for not hiding from their situation. I only hope they will respect the distinction between surgery to facilitate the functioning of their child's face, airways and food-tract and not delve too far and too needlessly (even dangerously)into "fixing" the way she looks. She looks the way she does, and it's the World that needs to 'get' with that, not Julianna!

  114. richard Says:

    I have met Juliana personally. Our Karate school had a fundraiser for her. I stumbled on this discussion while doing a search to find out more about the documentary that was made about Juliana because we were there when it was filmed. :)

    Juliana stole my heart, and my children's. Being with her and her family, you do not sense the suffering...but the joy this little girl brings. Her family celebrate her and her parents dote on her.

    Meeting Juliana was an eye-opener for my children. They came away from that fundraiser with a lot more compassion and tolerance for those who are different from the norm. They realised that you can never judge a book by its cover. Juliana is a shining example of what really matters - not looks, but what is inside the heart. She is such a sweetie - Juliana is a gift to our world, not a curse!!!

  115. Sam Says:

    i agree with what Cal, the medical student said further up.
    i think a lot of people here are ignoring the fact that this child may have a very unhappy life- Not just because she Looks different, but because she might never be able to experience the wonders that make life worth living- never being able to eat, breath, see, or hear normally, if at all. it is a cruel painful life she will have to live, whether she has her loving parents or not.
    even so, i do believe she has the "right" to live, as everyone does. she also has the "right" to die, which i would suspect that some of you christians may see as selfish and a sin.
    i dont think anyone could Hate this child, but we all have different opinions about what would be Best for her.
    its all up to the doctors, chance, and the girl's own wishes whether she wants to continue her life or not.

    and as a side note, id like to say to the christians who hope some of us will "rot in hell". that too is an "evil" remark, and you should be ashamed of yourselves for wishing hell (whether it be the eternal one with flames and a red hot poker, or the one here on earth) on anyone.

  116. incognito Says:

    According to the Bible our time here on Earth is just preparation for our eternal life in Heaven. Being that Juliana has to endure her life on Earth the way that she does, she will most likely be rewarded with the most wonderful life once in Heaven...and I hope that she gets to sit right next to God with a big, fat smile on her face, as he casts those of you degenerates with the hateful comments straight to HELL. She was born without a face, you horrible people were born without souls. God help YOU!

  117. Beelzebub Says:

    The only life we have is the one here on Earth. Juliana should be able to enjoy her life (if she can), otherwise there is no point sticking around any longer.
    "According to the Bible..." Pshh. Who believes in that crap? Oh yeah, just the weaklings that need a crutch to lean on when their lives become too difficult to handle by themselves.

  118. Joel Says:

    Hey Bub, or do I call you Beez?

    Millions of people around the world believe in "that crap", as you say. The real weaklings are more often those who have to talk down to others to make themselves feel superior.

    With that said, I once spoke as you did. (and was very weak for it..) My tune has changed significantly once I obtained knowledge to replace my bias and preconceived (and very incorrect) notions.

    Seek... perhaps you will find... :-)

    Joel

  119. Bub is fine, thanks Says:

    Did you gain this "knowledge" after a near death experience, or through some hallucinogenic drug?
    And speaking of knowledge... I thought religion was about Faith and Believing.
    What if I never find what I'm seeking for? Will I burn in Hell like what those mean Christians said? Oh golly, I hope not. You might want to pray for me, and for those poor lost souls who have never even heard of God.
    I'm sorry for "talking down" to you. Hopefully this post will sound just as falsely sweet as yours.

    Cheers mate. :)

  120. nathan Says:


    i'm humbled and inspired by your commitment to love and accept love from your special child. if only everyone had your courage to sustain others, this world would be a better place. i'm so grateful my family taught me to respect life... people with disabilities need our affection and help. you should be ashamed to leave such hurtful and sarcastic comments! i pray your little one speaks one day and that the world will find it in their heart give you a financial break.

    love endures all things

  121. sam Says:

    i cwied after i saw the documentry 2!. such a beautiful girl. yo raz, hws ya holidays ;)

  122. thenumbertwo Says:

    All you people speaking about "souls" and "god" all the human's so called soul is is a complex system of electrochemicals zooming through a three-pound wad of protien known as the brain, all a human is is a brain. A brain which is surrounded by an organic machine, made of muscles and fat and all the other things that make the human body that often clunky poorly maintained and built thing that is it. And as for god? ha! there's nothing but the intruicit tapesrty known as the universe, and it didn't get to function a few thousand years ago because some giant invisible hand came and made it in a week, it took billions of years for the entire universe, and all other things behind the scenes to even be, and it's still developing. If you don't believe me, stop humping your bible and start reading some scientifically ACCURATE books.

  123. CINDY Says:

    919 I HAVE JUST HEARED ABOUT THIS CHILD ; WHO I FEEL CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SHOW US TRUE LOVE ;KINDNESS CAREING FOR OTHERS AND MOST OF ALL THERE IS A GOD !! GOD IS REAL AND YOU PEOPLE WHO THINK THAT THERE IS NO GOD --WELL WHEN YOU DIE AND MEET THE LORD YOU WILL GO RIGHT TO WERE HE WILL SEND YOU TO - HELL!!! JULIANA IS A GIFT FROM GOD ;NO MATTER WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE. SHE HAS SO MUCH LOVE IN HER THEN MOST OF US WILL EVER HAVE IN A LIFE TIME I THINK HER PARENTS ARE JUST WONDERFUL AND LOVE THEIR CHILD NO MATTER WHAT. THIS WORLD IS A BETTER PLACE BECAUSE OF JULIANA WHO SHOWS US LOVE MORE THEN WE SHOW OTHERS AT TIMES!! BUT THEN THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE ME WHO BELIVE IN GOD AND SHOW HIS LOVE AND BELIVE IN JESUS. WE DO NOT HAVE HATE IN OUR HEARTS AND LIVE SUCH A LOW LIFE AS BILLY SSS;JUDE; KATIE;AND CYNTHIA DO!! BECAUSE WE(CHRISTIANS) HAVE THE LORD IN OUR HEARTS AND BY THE WAY THERE IS A GOD FOR I HAVE SEEN HIS WORKS IN MY OWN LIFE, SO WHAT I AM GETTING AT IS THANK GOODNESS FOR JULIANA WHO IS AN ANGEL FROM GOD AND A LIGHT FOR US ALL !! GOD BLESS HER AND HER FAMILY .

  124. Stacey Says:

    I just saw the story on Juliana and her family and can honestly say that they are an inspiration. Could I be as loving?...I wish I could say yes, but I just don't know.

    That being said, we all carry many genetic mutations in us, and Juliana's just happens to be one whose effect very much goes against our society's standard of beauty. But for god sake's people, it's just beauty, if we killed everybody who didn't look like Brad and Angelina, well I doubt there would be very active conversation on this thread.

    Anybody that watches the show can see that this child is very much aware and totally in there. I trust that her parents know her better than any ignorant idiot who just found out they have an opinion.

  125. inhumane Says:

    I have seen this girl, I know the story and the parents are $3 million in debt with medical bills. This girl was born without a face, she cannot see, breathe or eat on her own. It's one thing for a child to grow up with grotesque disfigurement, it's another to suffer as an invalid and outcast for the rest of her life. When will the plastic surgery stop? When will her physical and emotional pain end?

    This girl has no chance at living a normal life. People freak out over gaining a few pounds, for having a few pimples and for having a bad hair day. People say and do cruel, senseless and insensitive things. What will happen when this girl gets older? Will she be able to go to school? Will she have friends? Will she have a relationship? Or will she wish she was never born? There's only so much technology can do for her.

    Honestly, she does not look human. She looks like one of those sci-fi creatures. Mon Calamari from Star Wars, as others have stated. She is a genetic error, and mother nature normally would have stepped in and rejected her from her mother's womb. It's called a miscarriage. It happens all the time. Miscarriages happen when there is a genetic defect, and the fetus is not strong enough to survive a full-time delivery.

    But somehow, she survived and made it to full term. I don't know what type of lesson or message the parents are trying to convey to the world. I don't see anything humane or moral about their decision to keep the baby. A parent's goal should be to ensure that their child has the best possible start in life, and to have the most normal, happy development possible. I don't see anything normal or happy about this girl's life. The parents kept this child for their own selfish reasons, to prove a point to themselves and the world that this child will be the magical exception. The child's presence brings them happiness...but did they ever think about the child's happiness? Obviously not.

    She was born without a face...she will live and die without a face. She will go under the knife so many times that she will wonder if her parents really love her for who she really is...or if they are trying to re-create another child altogether. If they loved her so much, they would accept her with the disfigurement. If not, then they should have never brought her into this cruel world in the first place.

  126. debbyjay Says:

    What a touching story! I have been overcome since. My first reaction was, "why?". I ask that question because I am human. But God's ways are above ours and I am thankful for that. We have no idea what His plan is in the midst of this pain, sadness and joy that the whole family experiences. Jeremiah 29:11 (paraphrased). "For I know the plans I have for you, plans of good, not of evil..for a future and a hope". I pray for Julianna and her parents-that they hang on the the 'hope for the future'.
    (I am wondering if they have been introduced to Speech output devices for her, so she can learn to communicate with 'voice'.)
    Debby
    Speech/language Pathologist
    ps I also pray for the sad, hurt hearts expressed in letters above. God loves even the unlovely. And the unloveliness demonstrated in hearts expressed in posts on this site dwarf the 'unloveliness' of Julianna's external appearance.

  127. Lucy Says:

    'sss' and 'katie' please tell me where you live so that I can be sure to live as far away from you as possible...

  128. Bettye Franklin Says:

    I saw the program last night about your little girl and I could feel your pain and I realized how blessed I was to have 4 perfect children. I have three sisters that were born blind so I never took anything for granted. I believe that God has a purpose for everyone and he loves us no matter what we look like because he sees our heart and soul and not our face. Your little girl changed my life forever, never will I complain about life little ups and downs or aches and pains. I know the Lord has done something special for your daughter he gave her to you. We do not understand why somethings happen to some and not to others but we must continue to have faith in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I will pray for you and your daughter and God will give you the strenght to take care of your baby. May God shed His Grace and Mercy upon and grant you peace.

  129. Michelle Says:

    When I began to watch the documentary about Julianna, I admit it was very difficult. Honestly, I was somewhere between being horrified by her appearance, and quite taken by her parents incredibly strong constitution. As I moved between emotions and opinions, it struck me--this was their conquest for human dignity. No matter what my opinion or emotional state, I absolutely have no right to form any opinion. I wish them all the best!

  130. t Says:

    I wish for her to be happy!!

  131. Colleen Says:

    Hello. I watched the documentary about Julianna last night and i was deeply moved. What a angel she is! I pray that her surgeries are a success and that she lives a normal happy life. I think her parents are amazing, caring and loving people that only want the best for her. I could not help but cry for this lil' angel. I pray for her and i hope people see her for herself and not her defect. She looked so happy playing with her toys.. what a sweetie she is. I pray for her. I have a feeling she will be ok.. thanks to wonderful doctors and nurses caring for her. God bless! A BIG HUG FOR JULIANNA!

  132. Julie Says:

    Julianna -
    You are a beautiful little girl. I would take you for my own in a skinny minute.
    Little girl, you are in my heart. I wish the very best for you and your loving parents.
    I will follow your life and story to the end of my time. You are a great inspiration to many of us, let that be part of your strenght.
    We love you sweetie!

  133. Chris Says:

    Upon watching her story on Discovery Health, I have been amazed by her family's resolve in spite of this condition. The most beautiful thing is the way she bounces back from each surgery by happily playing with her toys days after grueling work. She truly enjoys her family and her life. I see how she hugs her parents and it reminds me of how my son hugs me when he is scared or tired or just wants to show love. I am profoundly touched by the story.

    To those who think that euthanasia would have been the "proper" choice, you are wildly off base. They did not know the extent of the deformity; all they knew what that she was deformed. It is a hard decision for a parent to make, but an easy one for internet pundits throwing out their two cents. I am sure I am not alone in being offended by these people, but they have their opinions. So be it.

    The mother said something interesting in the story. She knew that she could be going through many more surgeries until she can lead a satisfactory life. She also knew that Julianna might say enough is enough, that she is comfortable with who she is, and that she is ready to live her life as she is. I pray that she will get to that point. She is a truly special girl and she is blessed to have the support of the hospital staff at her disposal, a loving family, and total strangers who express love and admiration.

  134. Theresa Says:

    I watched the documentary last night, and I just prayed for this child throughout the show, and afterwards. She's been on my mind ever since. I pray for a miracle for her to live a happy normal life. I pray that she be not in much pain throughout her years of surgery... I pray that people are not cruel to this special angel... I pray for her parents, they are doing a wonderful job. Parenting is the hardest job of all, and they have more than most of us could ever imagine.
    She was born without a normal face... but she has a heart, a brain... a normal 2 year old little girl... I pray the doctors will be able to work their wonders on this child. I pray she will quickly heal from each and every surgery she is faced with, and surprise the world! I pray for Angels to surround this child today and always.... God Bless you Julianna, you have touched my heart and soul... Hugs for you sweetie....XXXOOO
    Theresa
    Seattle, WA

  135. James Says:

    The problem here is this world is full of hate. I can't wait to be in Heaven with Jesus. People who say there is no God are the ones trying to tell you evolution is real even though there are no facts only theories. All of those missing link bones aren't missing... they never existed. May God bless that loving family.

  136. Maren Says:

    I, too, saw the program last night on Juliana and her family, and have thought of little else since. I felt a feeling of such incredible love toward this irresistible little girl--and I think that is because she projects her own love out to others so demonstrably. This little girl just glows.

    I wanted to know more, and so in my search, I stumbled across this site, and what an eye-opener it was! Juliana my have many years of painful surgeries ahead of her, but I can imagine nothing more painful or with more dire consequences then having to move through a world exposed to the likes of the cruelest of you. Your thoughtless (actually, "thought" is probably the wrong word when applied to you)public comments on this site, your angry, seemingly souless remarks, remind me about what I most fear in this world: people like you.

    We wouldn't even consider discussions/debates about the rightness or wrongness of her existence or continuing existence if persons such as yourselves--ignorant, mean spirited, and cruel--weren't in this world to make the lives of persons with disfigurements even more difficult. I can hope you all growup, wakeup and learn to think (and maybe get some therapy, too, while you are at it), but I have little hope for that--or for you. Maybe I can hope that you will at least learn to tame your words, or to think of the consequences of the things you say. I'll try to hope for that.

    There are many lessons to take from this little girl and her family: courage, faith, love, patience, strength and hope. We could all profit from these examples. Of course Juliana and her family face some daunting times in the years to come. So, in the meantime, I lift a glass to a captivating little spirit named Juliana, and her terrific family, and wish for them the best that their journey can bring.

    I am too disgusted to extend my charity at this point toward those who wrote such hideous comments. Give me fifty Juliana's and her loving folks in my neighborhood any time; please, just don't any of YOU move in.

  137. Kathy Says:

    Thom and Tammy, I have not been able to stop thinking about Juliana and your family all day after seeing the documentary last night. I say if your family doesn't demonstrate the love of Christ then nobody does. Thank you for sharing your hearts with us-- your pain and your incredible love. It was risky to be sure, as evidenced by some of the calloused posts on this site, yet I'm confident that a multitude more has been forever changed even as I am. My prayers continue to go out for you all as well as for all who will read about Juliana and see the love of God lived out in your lives.

  138. Trish Says:

    I cannot imagine what it must be like for you and your daughter, Julianna. But can understand the love of a child and the tugs of love that they put on our hearts as their parents. My husband and I are parents to two beautiful boys and believe that a child, any child, is a gift from God.

    Ironically, after reading your story I received an inspirational e-mail from my 84 year old father and hope in some small way, it will touch your lives and give you strength.

    May God continue to bless you and Julianna.

    *****

    A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the doctor walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. She was still groggy from surgery. Her husband, David, held her hand as they braced themselves for the latest news.

    That afternoon of March 10, 1991, complications had forced Diana, only 24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an emergency Cesarean to deliver the couple's new daughter, Dana Lu Blessing. At 12 inches long and weighing only one pound nine ounces, they already knew she was perilously premature. Still, the doctor's soft words dropped like bombs.

    "I don't think she's going to make it," he said, as kindly as he could. "There's only a 10-percent chance she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim chance she does make it, her future could be a very cruel one."

    Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as the doctor described the devastating problems Dana would likely face if she survived. She would never walk, she would never talk, she would probably be blind, and she would certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral palsy to complete mental retardation, and on and on.

    "No! No!" was all Diana could say. She and David, with their 5-year-old son Dustin, had long
    dreamed of the day they would have a daughter to become a family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was slipping away. But as those first days passed, a new agony set in for David and Diana.

    Because Dana's underdeveloped nervous system was essentially 'raw,' the lightest kiss or caress only intensified her discomfort, so they couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against their chests to offer the strength of their love. All they could do, as Dana struggled
    alone beneath the ultraviolet light